ADHD Inspirations for the New Year
For my fellow parents who are raising kids with ADHD and other special needs, here is a blog to give you some inspiration for the new year. Long ago, I chose a gift of a little stone with “Love” on it as my talisman to keep me going through the difficult times. In my blog, find yours, and the inspiration for a wonderful year ahead!
Ten years ago, I attended a writer’s conference with the seeds of a book idea. Taking all the essays and articles I’d written about raising a child with ADHD, I’d turn them into a memoir. One of the workshops at the conference was led by a talented memoirist, Diana Raab. With her encouragement, I shared several of my essays and gained the confidence to move forward.
When it came time to leave, Diana gave out small stones, each of them etched with a word that embodied what the writer had shared. Mine was mottled green and salmon with the word, “Love,” etched in gold. It sits on my desk to this day, under a photo of my four-year-old daughter, Lee, on my back, her arms hugging my neck, a huge grin splitting her face.
Lee is and was my inspiration to write my memoir, a labor of love I am only finishing now. The little stone is my talisman, the photo over it a reminder during the more challenging times that the love we share is larger than her ADHD, SPD, anxiety, and learning disabilities.
If I could, I’d hand out a stone to every mom of an ADHD child who’s asked me, “How do I keep going when things are so hard?” Just like “Love,” each stone would carry an inspiration, a reminder for the new year:
“Believe” You are brave and wise enough to raise this child.
“Strength” Turn your fear into courage, and don’t be afraid to reach out for help.
“Faith” Have faith in yourself and don’t compare your child to others. She deserves to be herself.
“Peace” In times of conflict, move from reaction to reflection. The hot air will evaporate.
“Joy” Give yourself me time without guilt. Then you’ll have something to give back to your child.
“Wisdom” Knowledge is power. Arm yourself with ADHD resources to help your child.
“Comfort” Find the friends who give support and love, the ones who don’t pass judgment.
“Hope” Never give up on your child. Your hope keeps their hopes alive.
If one of these reminders resonates with you, may it be your talisman, as love was mine, to help you through the new year. Look around and appreciate everything in your life that’s good and true and hold tight to it.
Wishing all of you a Happy New Year!
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